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The Passing of a Friend
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He was supposed to have left this world 14 years ago. He was the runt, born missing a leg. His owner took him to the vet and left him to be euthanized. Instead, our niece rescued him, and he came to live with us. His name was Scooter.
In many ways he was a mess. It's hard for a 3-legged cat to groom himself. He needed help. He played rough, although he mellowed in his old age. He watched as our dog grew old. We had to ask the vet to put Callie to sleep at age 17. That left two cats. Scooter was young by comparison as our old cat, Toby, wore out at 19, and Scooter became our only pet, our last pet.
He was a member of the family, a completely indoor cat. The outdoors fascinated and terrified him. One day he ran right through the front door screen. He hid under a car across the street and cried until someone came to rescue him.
A cat who is missing his right rear leg not only cannot groom himself properly, he can't scratch behind his ear. You know how a dog or cat cocks his head to one side and scratches behind his ear with his rear leg. Well, Scooter cocked his head the same way, but his little stub of a rear leg just waved around in a circle uselessly, and the ear remained itchy. It was the most pathetic sight a person could ever see. You just had to scratch behind his ear for him, and he was always undyingly grateful for the relief.
But age caught up to Scooter sooner than our other pets. Perhaps it was genetics. Maybe it was the years with the awkward gait. Never a chubby cat, Scooter got thinner and thinner. His diet habits changed. He went from dry food to canned, and he still did not put on weight. His toilet habits became atrocious. He would make messes for no reason at all. He had to be put up in a room at night where he couldn't make such a mess.
And then something happened. He whined for food all the time, but he started actually eating less. Then he stopped eating completely. He got weaker and weaker. His spark began to fade. After a week it became apparent that he was not pulling out of it. He never seemed to be in pain or even very uncomfortable. He mostly slept. But his already frail body began to deteriorate rapidly. We made an appointment with the same vet who had released Callie and Toby from their last struggles.
But Scooter had other plans. Once again the vet was to be denied. Scooter slipped away in the night, passing away at home on his own. We laid him to rest beside Callie and Toby. The house will be emptier without him, but he will live on in our memories. None of us can ask for a better end, cat or human, than to be surrounded by those you love and remembered fondly by all who knew you, despite your flaws.
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Awwh...he looks like a cutie. We lost our sweet Max a year ago, and it was so hard on all of us, especially Brea, our daughter. We have taken in a stray German cat, that was abandoned near some friends os ours. So I feel that we manifested him through the universe. We wanted another pet to love, and then we heard of a stray that needed a home - voila- Sunny is our new pet. He runs us all around.
Scooter must have been an inspiration given that he only had 3 legs! Well he was loved and he gave love. Pets help us grow and assist us on our journeys here.
Sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing Scooter with us ![]()
After my last post. Sunny came in meowing some message to me, then brushed up on my leg. I loved Mas, and I love Sunny. But I also love all of my other buddied that came to grace me love and unconditional love: Buggie Dog, Jimmy Dog, and Max ![]()
I can only offer my condolences. As a pet lover, I can relate to this... "My heart has joined the Thousand, for today my friend stopped running." ~Hazel-rah.
Thanks for sharing this story. As a cat lover (I have three rescued cats), I found it very touching. One of my cats is diabetic and has to get insulin shots twice a day. It has taken awhile but he's finally pretty well regulated. He has always been an affectionate cat, but I swear he knows that things have even changed a little between him and me now that he has different needs and he seems to appreciate me more. I've had several cats and dogs in my life and have had to adjust to losing them through the years. I'm really grateful for what they've given me and I like to think that I made their lives a little better, too. By the way, I also have a very sweet dog that I "inherited" from one of my daughters. I'm glad that Scooter had a good home - I worry sometimes about the special-needs animals that end up in homes where the owners aren't so patient or understanding or loving. It's not a comfortable thought and so then I go give my own pets a little extra love.
Very touching post, Chuck. I am sorry for your loss. I think you did a great thing by giving Scooter a chance to live. Taking care of regular pets is already enough work, but a special needs one is even more work....a testament to your family